Starting.,

Beginnings are an interesting time.  Quite frankly, I am not entirely sure what I want this blog to be and which way I plan on going with this regurgitation of thought.  But I thought I could help some people.  I think at its core, my drive to throw this often personal screed out there, stems from a desire to help other people with their pain and sense of loss or release from prison – whichever way you want to look at your personal experience of the explosion, erosion and breakdown of a marriage.   I have heard people say that divorce is a kind of death that has to be mourned.  Perhaps this is part of my mourning process.   I will say that although at times I consider my life difficult, I am wholeheartedly better off for all of my experiences.  We all suffer into knowledge and through that suffering, that baptism of emotional fire, we become better, stronger, more loving, more hopeful people.